When @Ciara says level up, I feel her. Too many times as single women we have expectations of what we want in a husband, but when we meet someone and they seem decent(seem is the operative word) we become complacent thinking somehow we can change them, then we begin accepting every crumb that they are offering, not giving offering (yes crumbs). You know exactly what crumbs I’m talking about the : “hey stranger, big head , I’ve been busy, I broke my phone; all crumbs. We need to stop accepting, searching, planning, messaging, (yup that too 🤦🏾♀️, and don’t front like you haven’t done it) and above all mind our own business. Level up is not saying your less than. Level up is saying that I’m worth more than crumbs. #staywokesis#levelup#hesoutthere#stopsearching#startpraying #loveyourself #godfirst #preparation #belikeruth #mindyourbusiness #hisgraceissufficient
Don’t take anything Personally Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering. 🍀#liveyouradventure#liveyourlife#selfcare#calm#mind #mindset #mindyourbusiness #photo #friends #friendship #instadaily #black #blackandwhitephoto #photo #dontbeavictim #selfrealization
Tuesday truth: Self got out of her confines this morning after a text message from someone who pretends to love and support me but secretly talks trash about me behind my back and thinks their "friends" don't repeat everything they say about me, directly back to me... newsflash... people are people man... if they talk about me to you... they'll talk about YOU to ME. Duh... block, delete. Problem solved. See, I don't even entertain your haters... The moment comes when you realize that even the people who hurt you actually did you a favor by strengthening and conditioning you for anything. Just say thank you. Thank you. Thank you. To everyone who stabbed me in the back, now I have a beautiful knife collection. To every female that shot dirty looks at me when I walked in the room... thanks now I have an arsenal of ammunition. To every person who threw insults and comparisons and judgments... thank you, now my passing game is strong af, and I can duck and dodge your fake a** compliments (really lowkey insults) now too, like a pro. Don't gaslight me bruh... And to all those who secretly despised me and wished I would fail... keep wishing, dreams do come true boo-boo, and even after all you've done I still wish you well. I learned about karma in one of those books I read. Thanks to all of you, my dreams come true every day. While you judged me, I was getting my education. While you compared me and held me accountable for your sins, I was reading books, making all A's, and padding my bank accounts. While you were showcasing your ignorance I was quietly seeking the wisdom to excel at life. Now your bank account is dry, you got nothing to show for running the streets, and you look dumb af for talking so much about me when you coulda been grinding to disappear like I'm about to vanish on you... poof 💨 👻👻😱 and then she was gone... For all those that really supported me, I'll see you at the dinner table, you the real MVP and I'll break bread with you any time! #livingmylife#mindyourbusiness#Isurvived#educationcomplete#cashflowright #enjoylife #retiredlife #Igotmine #Fyourjudgment #financiallyindependentwomenrule #IdowhatIwant #mybabyblue #mykidsaremagic
People are so quick to judge😤But if you ain't walk a mile in my shoes and haven’t lived a day in my life, you ain't survive the shit I’ve had to survived, you ain't had to deal with the shit Ive had to deal with you have no rights. There is always a reason behind everything, don’t always take things at face value, quite possibly that’s the cruelest thing u can do somebody. Particularly when you don’t understand it or only know part of the truth anyway. LET PEOPLE LIVE THEIR LIVES without having to deal with criticism and judgement..ijs...#theresareasoniamthewayiam#dontjudgeme#youcouldnthandleit#youdontknowmylife#youdontknowwhatibeenthru #thislifeishardenough #dontjudgemeyoudontknowmylife #youdontknowmystory #dontjudgeabookbyitscover #youdontknowjack #dontjudge #stopjudging #mindyourbusiness #mindyourownbusiness #stopjudgingpeople #stopjudgingandstartloving
Judging others makes us blind, whereas love is illuminating. By judging others we blind ourselves to our own evil and to the grace which others are just as entitled to as we are.
#neverjudge #peoplechange #peoplemoveon #stopjudgingpeople #beagoodperson #beagoodperson #helppeopleinneed #givethemachance #givethemhope #beagoodhuman #beagoodpersonalways #positivethinking #positivethoughts #positivethink #positivethinkers